Sermon Research: The Fifth Petition of the Lord’s Prayer
”Forgive Us Our Trespasses, As We Forgive Those Who Trespass Against Us”
March 18, 2026 — Wednesday in Lent (Week 3)
Liturgical Context
Season: Lent, Week 3 (Lent began on Ash Wednesday, February 18, 2026) Liturgical Color: Purple/Violet — the color of penitence, royalty-in-suffering, and preparation Service Type: Wednesday Lenten Midweek — part of a Lord’s Prayer sermon series
The Lord’s Prayer is a natural organizing principle for a Lenten midweek series. Lent is the church’s season of intensified prayer, self-examination, fasting, and preparation for the Paschal mystery. The seven petitions of the Our Father — the prayer Christ Himself taught His disciples — form a complete catechesis on what it means to pray, to depend on God, and to live in the tension between the already and the not-yet of the Kingdom.
The connection between Lent and penitential prayer is ancient. The early church used the forty days before Easter as a period of preparation for baptismal candidates (catechumens), during which they were formally taught the Lord’s Prayer — the traditio orationis dominicae — as part of the baptismal catechesis. The prayer was “handed over” to the candidates, typically during Lent, and they were expected to recite it publicly before baptism. Augustine’s catechetical sermons (Sermons 56-59) were delivered precisely in this context: teaching the Lord’s Prayer to those preparing for the Easter Vigil baptism.
The fifth petition sits at the heart of Lent’s deepest concern: our sin and God’s mercy. If Lent strips away pretense, this petition strips us bare. We are debtors who cannot pay. We are sinners who need to be forgiven — not once, but daily. And the startling second clause — “as we forgive those who trespass against us” — turns the mirror on us and asks: Do you? Do you really?
This is Week 3 of Lent. The congregation has been walking this road for nearly three weeks. The novelty of Lenten discipline has worn off. The cross is coming into sharper focus. This is the right moment to go deep into the petition that Martin Luther called the prayer the Christian must pray “every day, every hour.”
The Petition Itself — Textual Foundation
The Text in Its Forms
Matthew 6:12 (Greek):
kai aphes hemin ta opheilemata hemon, hos kai hemeis aphekamen tois opheiletais hemon.
“And forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors.”
Luke 11:4 (Greek):
kai aphes hemin tas hamartias hemon, kai gar autoi aphiomen panti opheilonti hemin.
“And forgive us our sins, for we ourselves also forgive everyone who is indebted to us.”
The Traditional Liturgical Form (“Trespasses”): The word “trespasses” does not appear in either the Matthew or Luke version of the Lord’s Prayer. It comes from the English translation tradition, influenced by Matthew 6:14-15, where Jesus uses the word paraptomata — “trespasses” — in his commentary immediately following the prayer. William Tyndale (1526) used “trespasses” in his translation of the prayer itself, and this passed into the Book of Common Prayer (1549), which standardized it in English-speaking worship. Most English-speaking Christians now pray “trespasses” in church, even though it is technically a harmonization from the surrounding passage rather than a direct translation of Matthew 6:12.
Luther’s German Rendering:
“Und vergib uns unsere Schuld, wie wir unsern Schuldigern vergeben.”
“And forgive us our guilt/debt, as we forgive our debtors.”
Luther used Schuld — a word that carries the double meaning of “debt” and “guilt.” This is theologically apt: our sin is both an objective debt owed to God’s justice and a subjective guilt weighing on the conscience. The German Schuldigern — “those who are guilty toward us” or “those who owe us” — preserves the reciprocal structure of the petition.
Key Greek and Latin Terms
1. aphiemi — “to send away, release, forgive”
This is the primary New Testament word for forgiveness. It occurs approximately 150 times in the New Testament, appearing almost exclusively in the Gospels. Its literal meaning is “to send away” or “to let go” — the same word used when Jesus “dismissed” the crowds (Matthew 13:36), when a man “leaves” father and mother (Matthew 19:5), and when the nets were “left” by the disciples (Mark 1:18).
In its theological usage, aphiemi means to release someone from an obligation, debt, or punishment. In secular Greek it was used for canceling debts, releasing prisoners, and dissolving legal obligations. When Jesus says “Your sins are forgiven (aphientai)” (Mark 2:5), the word carries the full weight of this background: your debt is canceled, your chains are loosed, your obligation is dissolved. Forgiveness is not merely an emotional feeling or a decision to overlook an offense — it is an active sending away, a definitive release.
The word connects to the Day of Atonement background (Leviticus 16), where the scapegoat is “sent away” into the wilderness bearing the people’s sins. The connection is deliberate: to forgive is to send sin away from the sinner, as far as the east is from the west (Psalm 103:12).
Out of the sixty passages in the English New Testament that read “forgive,” forty-six translate aphiemi. Each time the underlying idea is that of being “sent away” — forgiveness as an actual reclaiming from sin, not merely a gesture of goodwill.
2. opheilema — “debt, what is owed”
Matthew uses opheilema — a financial and legal term meaning “debt” or “obligation.” It appears only twice in the New Testament as a noun: here in Matthew 6:12 and in Romans 4:4 (“the wages are not counted as a gift but as a debt”). Its verb form (opheilo, “to owe”) occurs 35 times, referring to both monetary debts and moral obligations.
Matthew probably used “debts” because it corresponded to the most common Aramaic term for sin — hoba — used by Jews of Jesus’ day, which carried both financial and moral-spiritual connotations. The concept of sins as debts is deeply rooted in Jewish theology, connecting to the Year of Jubilee (Leviticus 25), when all debts were forgiven, and to the prophetic vision of a messianic release from all obligation (Isaiah 61:1-2; Luke 4:18-19).
The financial metaphor is theologically potent. A debtor is not someone who has merely offended a creditor’s feelings — he owes something that must be paid. Sin creates a real obligation before God’s justice. This obligation cannot be satisfied by the debtor (we are insolvent), yet it cannot simply be ignored (God is just). The cross is where the books are balanced: Christ pays what we owe. This is the heart of the fifth petition.
3. paraptoma — “trespass, a falling beside the way”
Though this word does not appear in the prayer itself, Jesus uses it immediately after teaching the prayer in Matthew 6:14-15: “For if you forgive men their paraptomata (trespasses), your heavenly Father will also forgive you.” The fact that Jesus shifts from “debts” (in the prayer) to “trespasses” (in the commentary) suggests these are complementary images for the same reality.
Paraptoma comes from para (“beside”) and pipto (“to fall”) — literally, “a falling beside” the path, a stumbling off the way. Unlike the stark rebellion implied by some sin-words, paraptoma has the nuance of a slip, a lapse, a failure to walk the straight path. It is the sin of those who know the way but cannot keep to it — which is precisely the situation of the baptized Christian, who knows God’s will but daily falls short. This is why the liturgical tradition adopted “trespasses” for the prayer: it describes the ongoing, daily reality of the believer’s life — not dramatic apostasy, but the constant stumbling that requires constant forgiveness.
4. hamartia — “sin, missing the mark”
Luke’s version uses hamartia — the broadest Greek word for sin, literally meaning “a missing of the mark.” Where Matthew’s “debts” emphasizes the obligation created by sin, and “trespasses” emphasizes the wandering from the path, hamartia emphasizes the failure to hit the target. We were created for fellowship with God and love of neighbor; sin is the persistent failure to achieve either.
Luke’s choice to use hamartia alongside opheilonti (“everyone who is indebted to us”) creates a deliberate asymmetry: we ask God to forgive our sins (the broadest category), as we forgive those who are indebted to us (the narrower, more specific reality of interpersonal wrongs). The effect is to emphasize the greater scope of what we need from God versus what others need from us.
5. eleos — “mercy”
The broader theme of this Lenten series is MERCY, and the primary Greek word is eleos. This is the word behind the church’s most ancient prayer: Kyrie eleison — “Lord, have mercy.” It appears throughout the Gospels, especially in the cries of those who approach Jesus for healing: “Have mercy on me, Son of David!” (Matthew 9:27; Matthew 15:22; Matthew 20:30-31).
Eleos in the Septuagint most often translates the Hebrew chesed — God’s covenant faithfulness, lovingkindness, and mercy. When the church prays “Lord, have mercy,” it is not groveling before an arbitrary tyrant; it is calling upon the God who has bound Himself in covenant to His people and whose nature it is to show mercy. The fifth petition is the specific application of this mercy: we who have failed the covenant ask the covenant God to deal with us not according to our debt but according to His eleos.
Matthew 6:14-15 — Jesus’ Own Commentary
“For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you, but if you do not forgive others their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.” (Matthew 6:14-15)
This is remarkable. Jesus has just finished teaching the entire Lord’s Prayer — seven petitions covering the full range of the Christian life before God. And then He singles out one petition for further commentary. Not the first (“hallowed be thy name”), not the last (“deliver us from evil”), but the fifth: the one about forgiveness. Why?
The word hos — “as”: The hinge of the entire petition is this tiny word. “Forgive us our debts, as (hos) we also have forgiven our debtors.” What does the “as” mean? This is the most theologically sensitive question in the entire prayer, and getting it wrong leads either to works-righteousness or to antinomianism.
What “as” does NOT mean:
- It does NOT mean “because we forgive” — as though our forgiving merits God’s forgiveness. This would make human action the cause of divine grace, which contradicts the entire Gospel.
- It does NOT mean “to the degree that we forgive” — as though God measures our forgiveness to calibrate His own.
- It does NOT mean “after we forgive” — as though God waits for us to act first.
What “as” DOES mean (Lutheran reading): Luther and the Lutheran confessional tradition interpret the “as” in two complementary ways:
First, it is a sign and confirmation. Luther writes in the Large Catechism: “If you forgive, you have this comfort and assurance, that you are forgiven in heaven, not on account of your forgiving — for God forgives freely and without condition, out of pure grace, because He has so promised, as the Gospel teaches — but He has set this up as a confirmation and assurance, as a sign alongside the promise.”
Second, the “as” clause describes the fruit of having been forgiven, not the condition for it. The person who has truly received God’s forgiveness — who has felt the weight of 10,000 talents lifted from their shoulders — is set free to forgive the 100 denarii owed by a neighbor. Forgiving others is not the root but the fruit; not the cause but the consequence.
The terrifying flipside (Matthew 6:15, and the Parable of the Unforgiving Servant in Matthew 18) is that refusal to forgive is evidence that one has not truly received forgiveness. The unforgiving heart is the heart that has not grasped the Gospel. It is not that God withholds forgiveness from the stingy; it is that the stingy person has never actually opened their hands to receive what God freely gives.
Luther’s Catechism on the Fifth Petition
The Small Catechism
The Fifth Petition: And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.
What does this mean?
We pray in this petition that our Father in heaven would not look at our sins, or deny our prayer because of them. We are neither worthy of the things for which we pray, nor have we deserved them, but we ask that He would give them all to us by grace, for we daily sin much and surely deserve nothing but punishment. So we too will sincerely forgive and gladly do good to those who sin against us.
Analysis of the Small Catechism Explanation:
Luther’s explanation is a masterpiece of compression. In four sentences he accomplishes the following:
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He reframes the petition as a prayer about prayer. “We pray in this petition that our Father in heaven would not look at our sins, or deny our prayer because of them.” The fifth petition is not merely about forgiveness in the abstract — it is about our standing before God as those who pray. Our sins disqualify us from approaching God at all. Every petition in the Lord’s Prayer is endangered by our unworthiness. The fifth petition is the one that clears the way for all the others.
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He drives a stake through merit. “We are neither worthy of the things for which we pray, nor have we deserved them.” This is blunt and total. There is no partial worthiness, no sliding scale. We have nothing to bring.
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He grounds everything in grace. “But we ask that He would give them all to us by grace.” The word all is crucial — it refers back to all the petitions: hallowing, kingdom, will, daily bread, forgiveness, protection, deliverance. All of it is grace. All of it is gift.
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He names our condition without flinching. “For we daily sin much and surely deserve nothing but punishment.” Daily. Much. Nothing but punishment. Luther does not soften this. He does not say “we occasionally stumble” or “we sometimes fall short.” We daily sin much. This is the Christian’s honest self-assessment before God — not as an exercise in self-hatred, but as the precondition for receiving grace. Only the sick need a doctor.
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He connects receiving to giving. “So we too will sincerely forgive and gladly do good to those who sin against us.” Note the word so — it connects our forgiving to our having been forgiven. And note gladly — this is not grudging or reluctant forgiveness but the joyful overflow of a heart that has been released from its own enormous debt.
The Large Catechism — The Gold Mine
Luther’s Large Catechism treatment of the fifth petition is the richest catechetical source available. He writes at length, and every sentence repays careful attention.
On the necessity of this petition:
“This petition relates to our poor, miserable life, which, although we have and believe the Word of God, and do and submit to His will, and are supported by His gifts and blessings, is nevertheless not without sin. For we still stumble daily and transgress because we live in the world among men who do us much harm and give us cause for impatience, anger, revenge, etc. Besides, we have Satan at our back, who sets upon us on every side, and fights against all the foregoing petitions, so that it is not possible always to stand firm in such a persistent conflict.”
Luther is realistic about the Christian life. Even believers — people who “have and believe the Word of God” — still sin daily. The sources of this ongoing sin are threefold: the world (other people who provoke us), the flesh (our own impatience, anger, desire for revenge), and the devil (who attacks from behind and fights against everything God gives). The Christian life is not a calm ascent toward perfection but a “persistent conflict” in which we stumble constantly.
On God’s prevenient forgiveness:
“Therefore there is here again great need to call upon God and to pray: Dear Father, forgive us our trespasses. Not as though He did not forgive sin without and even before our prayer (for He has given us the Gospel, in which is pure forgiveness before we prayed or ever thought about it). But this is to the intent that we may recognize and accept such forgiveness.”
This is a critical theological point. God’s forgiveness precedes our asking. It is not that God sits in heaven waiting for us to ask before He decides to forgive. The Gospel itself — the message of Christ’s death and resurrection for sinners — is “pure forgiveness” given “before we prayed or ever thought about it.” The petition does not cause God to forgive; it causes us to recognize and receive what God has already done.
On conscience and the purpose of the petition:
“For since the flesh in which we daily live is of such a nature that it neither trusts nor believes God, and is ever active in evil lusts and devices, so that we sin daily in word and deed, by commission and omission, by which the conscience is thrown into unrest, so that it is afraid of the wrath and displeasure of God, and thus loses the comfort and confidence of the Gospel; therefore it is ceaselessly necessary that we run hither and pray that He would not fall upon us in His wrath.”
The fifth petition is medicine for the troubled conscience. The conscience, battered by daily sin, loses its grip on the Gospel. It begins to fear God’s wrath instead of trusting His mercy. The petition restores what sin destroys: “the comfort and confidence of the Gospel.” This is why Luther says it is “ceaselessly necessary” — not because God needs to be reminded to forgive, but because we need to be reminded that He does.
On the “as we forgive” clause:
“And herein we have a beautiful, excellent, and great advantage for our comfort and confidence that we need never lack this forgiveness. For as we forgive, so God will forgive us; and as we are certain that we forgive our neighbor, even so we should be certain that God also forgives us.”
“If you forgive, you have this comfort and assurance, that you are forgiven in heaven, not on account of your forgiving — for God forgives freely and without condition, out of pure grace, because He has so promised, as the Gospel teaches — but He has set this up as a confirmation and assurance, as a sign alongside the promise, which is related to the prayer in Luke 6:37: ‘Forgive, and ye shall be forgiven.’”
This passage is essential for preaching. Luther makes three moves:
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Our forgiving others is a sign — an external, tangible confirmation — that we have received God’s forgiveness. Just as Baptism is a visible sign of an invisible grace, so our willingness to forgive is a visible sign that the invisible grace of God’s forgiveness has taken root in us.
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The basis of God’s forgiveness is never our action but always pure grace. “God forgives freely and without condition.” Luther will not allow any confusion on this point.
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Yet the sign matters. Luther compares it to Baptism and the Lord’s Supper — external things God has given “that we might use and practice every hour, as a thing that we have with us at all times.” Our forgiving heart is something we carry with us always — a daily, portable confirmation of God’s mercy, available in every situation where someone wrongs us.
On the danger of unforgiveness:
“Therefore let every man see to it that he forgive from the heart. For if anyone does not do this, let him not think that his sins are forgiven, nor that the Lord’s Prayer or any other prayer profits him; which is taught in the Gospel, Matthew 6:15: ‘If ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.’”
“Therefore, if you do not forgive, then do not think that God forgives you; but if you forgive, you have this comfort and assurance, that you are forgiven in heaven.”
Luther is severe here, but note the logic carefully. He does NOT say: “God will punish you if you don’t forgive.” He says: “If you don’t forgive, that is evidence that you have not received forgiveness.” The unforgiveness is the symptom, not the cause. The disease is a heart that has not grasped the Gospel.
On humility — the equalizing effect of the petition:
“For in the presence of God all must lower their plumes, and be glad that they can attain forgiveness. And let him not think that he is ever going to make up for his guilt by his own righteousness. In short, God wishes the comfort and confident assurance of every Christian to rest on this, that God is merciful and willing to forgive.”
“All must lower their plumes.” The German is vivid — everyone must pull down their peacock feathers. Before God, there are no spiritual aristocrats. The holy and the profane, the pious and the struggling, the longtime church member and the newcomer — all stand equally as beggars before the throne of mercy. The fifth petition is the great equalizer.
Luther’s Sermon Writings on the Fifth Petition
From “An Exposition of the Lord’s Prayer for Simple Laymen” (1519):
“Dear Lord God, Father, do not call us into judgment, for in your presence no one is righteous. Please do not condemn us for being ungrateful for all of your unspeakable goodness — both spiritual and physical — and for our daily blunders and sins, which are more than we know or mark. Furthermore, do not consider how good or bad we have been, but look upon us with your infinite compassion, bestowed upon us by Christ, your beloved Son. Forgive also all our enemies and all those who have harmed us or done us an injustice, even as we forgive them from the heart.”
This is the young Luther at his pastoral best — expanding the petition into a full prayer that a layperson could use. Note the phrase “our daily blunders and sins, which are more than we know or mark.” We do not even know the full extent of our sin. There are sins we have committed that we have already forgotten, sins we did not even recognize as sins at the time. The fifth petition covers them all.
From Luther’s Commentary on Galatians (1535):
Luther made the striking argument that Christ Himself, when bearing humanity’s sin on the cross, prayed the fifth petition with complete sincerity on behalf of sinners. He wrote that Christ was simultaneously “sinner, supplicant, debt payer, debt paid, and forgiver.” Christ enters so fully into our condition that He takes our debt as His own — and then pays it.
On the connection between forgiving others and freedom:
Luther wrote in a sermon on the Lord’s Prayer: “Christ does not say, ‘because of your sins you must fast this much or pray this much or donate this much or do this or that.’ Rather does He say, ‘if you would render satisfaction and atone for your guilt and wipe out your sins, listen to my advice, yes, to my command. The only thing for you to do is to forgive and to renew your heart… As long as you forgive, all will be well.’”
This passage is remarkable for what it excludes. No fasting, no extra prayers, no donations, no works of satisfaction. The only thing the Christian “must do” in response to the Gospel is forgive — and even this is not a work of merit but the natural response of a heart that has been renewed by grace.
Scripture Passages for Preaching
Primary Texts
Matthew 6:9-15 — The Prayer Itself and Jesus’ Commentary
Context: The Lord’s Prayer appears in the Sermon on the Mount (Matthew 5-7), within the section on piety (Matthew 6:1-18). Jesus has just warned against praying like the hypocrites (Matthew 6:5-6) and against empty repetition like the Gentiles (Matthew 6:7-8). The prayer is given as the model of how the Father’s children should pray.
Key Observation: The prayer moves from God-ward petitions (name, kingdom, will) to human-ward petitions (bread, forgiveness, temptation, evil). The fifth petition is the hinge: it addresses both our relationship with God (vertical — “forgive us”) and our relationship with others (horizontal — “as we forgive”). It is the only petition that includes a human response clause.
Theological Significance: Matthew 6:14-15, where Jesus singles out this petition for emphasis, demonstrates that forgiveness is the practical test case for the entire prayer. If the hallowing of God’s name, the coming of His kingdom, and the doing of His will are genuine realities in a person’s life, forgiveness will be the evidence. Conversely, unforgiveness is evidence that the prayer is mere words.
Matthew 18:21-35 — The Parable of the Unforgiving Servant
Context: Peter asks Jesus, “Lord, how often will my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? As many as seven times?” Peter thinks he is being generous — the rabbis typically taught that three times was sufficient. Jesus’ answer demolishes every calculation: “I do not say to you seven times, but seventy-seven times” (or “seventy times seven” — the Greek is ambiguous, but either way the point is: stop counting).
The Parable:
- A king settles accounts with his servants.
- One servant owes 10,000 talents (murion talanton). This is a staggering, almost absurd sum. A single talent was worth about 6,000 denarii; a laborer earned about one denarius per day. Ten thousand talents = 60,000,000 denarii = roughly 200,000 years’ wages for a common worker. The entire annual tax revenue of Galilee, Perea, Idumea, Judea, and Samaria combined was only about 1,000 talents. Jesus deliberately chose an unpayable, unimaginable number. The debt is cosmic.
- The king, moved with compassion (splanchnistheis — a visceral, gut-level compassion), forgives the entire debt.
- That same servant goes out, finds a fellow servant who owes him 100 denarii (about 100 days’ wages — a real debt, but infinitesimally small compared to what he was forgiven), and has him thrown in prison.
- The other servants are distressed and report to the king, who summons the wicked servant: “I forgave you all that debt because you pleaded with me. And should not you have had mercy on your fellow servant, as I had mercy on you?”
- The servant is delivered to the jailers “until he should pay all his debt.”
- Jesus concludes: “So also my heavenly Father will do to every one of you, if you do not forgive your brother from your heart.”
Theological Significance: This parable is the narrative illustration of the fifth petition. The ratio between the debts — roughly 600,000 to 1 — is the ratio between what God forgives us and what we are asked to forgive others. Every grudge we hold, every offense we nurse, every relationship we refuse to restore is a 100-denarius debt we are collecting from someone after being forgiven 10,000 talents.
The phrase “from your heart” (apo ton kardion hymon) in v. 35 is crucial. Jesus is not asking for a mere verbal formula (“I forgive you”) but for a genuine internal release. This is the work of the Holy Spirit, not of human willpower.
Preaching Connection: In a small town of 200 people, everyone knows everyone. Grudges can last for generations. Feuds between families, disputes over property lines, old hurts that get rehearsed at every coffee gathering — these are the 100-denarii debts that people cling to with white-knuckled intensity, all while praying “forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us” every Sunday. The parable asks: Do you know what you are praying?
Psalm 51 — David’s Great Penitential Prayer
“Have mercy on me, O God, according to your steadfast love; according to your abundant mercy blot out my transgressions. Wash me thoroughly from my iniquity, and cleanse me from my sin.” (Psalm 51:1-2)
Context: Written after David’s adultery with Bathsheba and murder of Uriah (2 Samuel 11-12). The superscription reads: “A Psalm of David, when Nathan the prophet went to him, after he had gone in to Bathsheba.”
Key Hebrew Terms:
- channeni — “Be gracious to me” — from the root chanan, meaning unmerited favor, a gift to one who has no claim on it.
- chesed — “steadfast love” — God’s covenant loyalty. David does not appeal to God’s justice (that would destroy him) but to God’s character as a covenant-keeping God.
- rachamim — “abundant mercy” — from the root for “womb.” David asks God for a mother’s visceral compassion.
- machah — “blot out” — to wipe clean, erase, obliterate. The image is of wiping a slate clean.
- kabas — “wash thoroughly” — the word for scrubbing dirty laundry. David wants a deep cleansing, not a surface rinse.
Theological Significance for the Fifth Petition: Psalm 51 is the Old Testament version of the fifth petition — the prayer of one who knows their debt is unpayable and throws themselves entirely on the mercy of God. David does not offer excuses, explanations, or mitigating circumstances. He does not say “I sinned, but…” He simply confesses: “Against you, you only, have I sinned” (Psalm 51:4). The fifth petition is Psalm 51 in concentrated form.
Psalm 51:10 — “Create in me a clean heart, O God”: The verb bara’ (“create”) is used in the Old Testament only of God’s creative activity. David is not asking for self-improvement but for a new creation. Only the God who made the world can remake a sinful heart. This connects to 2 Corinthians 5:17: “If anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation.”
Psalm 130 — De Profundis
“Out of the depths I cry to you, O LORD! O Lord, hear my voice! Let your ears be attentive to the voice of my pleas for mercy! If you, O LORD, should mark iniquities, O Lord, who could stand? But with you there is forgiveness, that you may be feared.” (Psalm 130:1-4)
Context: One of the seven Penitential Psalms (Psalms 6, 32, 38, 51, 102, 130, 143) and one of the fifteen Songs of Ascents (Psalms 120-134) sung by pilgrims ascending to Jerusalem.
Key Observations:
The rhetorical question of verse 3 — “If you, O LORD, should mark iniquities, O Lord, who could stand?” — is devastating in its simplicity. The answer is: no one. Not David. Not the prophets. Not the apostles. Not the pastor. Not the most faithful member of the congregation. If God kept a ledger, every human being would be insolvent.
But verse 4 contains what Luther called “the great Gospel but”: “But with you there is forgiveness.” The Hebrew word for forgiveness here is selichah, which is used exclusively of God’s forgiveness — never of human forgiveness. It is something only God can do. And the purpose clause is startling: “that you may be feared.” We might expect “that you may be loved” or “that you may be thanked.” But the psalmist says feared — revered, held in awe. True forgiveness does not produce casual familiarity with God; it produces holy wonder. The one who knows they have been forgiven an unpayable debt does not shrug it off but stands in trembling amazement.
Luther called Psalm 130 a “Pauline Psalm” — an Old Testament foreshadowing of Romans 3-4 and the doctrine of justification by faith alone. He loved it as a summary of the whole Gospel: we are in the depths, we cannot save ourselves, but God forgives freely, and this forgiveness is received by those who “wait for the LORD” (Psalm 130:5) — that is, by faith.
Supporting Texts
Luke 7:36-50 — The Sinful Woman: “Forgiven Much, Loves Much”
“Therefore I tell you, her sins, which are many, are forgiven — for she loved much. But he who is forgiven little, loves little.” (Luke 7:47)
Context: Jesus dines at the house of Simon the Pharisee. A woman known as a sinner enters, weeps at Jesus’ feet, wipes them with her hair, kisses them, and anoints them with perfume. Simon is scandalized. Jesus tells the parable of two debtors — one forgiven 500 denarii, the other 50 — and asks which will love the creditor more.
Theological Key: The “for” (hoti) in verse 47 is causal in one direction: the woman’s extravagant love is evidence that she has been forgiven much, not the cause of her forgiveness. This is the same logic as the fifth petition’s “as we forgive”: our forgiving is evidence of having been forgiven, not the basis for it. Simon the Pharisee, who thinks he has little to be forgiven, loves little. The woman, who knows the depth of her debt, loves extravagantly.
Luke 15:11-32 — The Prodigal Son
The father sees the son “while he was still a long way off” and runs to meet him — a detail that would have shocked Jesus’ original audience, as it was considered undignified for an elder to run. The father does not wait for a completed confession. He does not demand repayment. He restores the son to full status: robe, ring, sandals, feast. This is the fifth petition in narrative form: the Father forgives before we finish asking.
The elder brother — who has “never disobeyed” (Luke 15:29) — is the one who cannot forgive. He is the Unforgiving Servant in a different parable. He has lived in the father’s house but never understood the father’s heart.
Luke 23:34 — “Father, Forgive Them”
“Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do.”
Spoken from the cross. The one praying the fifth petition is the one who has no trespasses of His own to confess — yet He prays it on behalf of those who are killing Him. This is the ultimate demonstration that forgiveness flows from God to us before it flows from us to others. The cross is where the fifth petition is answered.
Colossians 3:12-13
“Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive.”
Key: The “as” (kathos) here means “in the same manner as” — modeling our forgiveness on the Lord’s forgiveness. The imperative to forgive is grounded in the indicative of having been forgiven.
Ephesians 4:32
“Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.”
The word for “forgiving” here is charizomenoi — from charis, grace. To forgive is to “grace” someone — to give them what they do not deserve. The connection to charis means that every act of forgiveness is a small imitation of the Gospel itself.
Romans 3:23-26 — Justification and the Mercy Seat
“For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and are justified by his grace as a gift, through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus, whom God put forward as a propitiation [hilasterion] by his blood, to be received by faith.”
The word hilasterion is the same word used in the Septuagint for the “mercy seat” — the golden cover of the Ark of the Covenant where the blood of atonement was sprinkled on the Day of Atonement (Leviticus 16; Hebrews 9:5). Paul is saying that Christ IS the mercy seat — the very place where God and sinful humanity meet, where wrath is absorbed and mercy flows out. The fifth petition is a prayer addressed to a God who has already provided the mercy seat in His own Son.
2 Corinthians 5:19
“In Christ God was reconciling the world to himself, not counting their trespasses against them, and entrusting to us the message of reconciliation.”
The phrase “not counting” (me logizomenos) uses accounting language: God does not enter our trespasses in the ledger. The books are clean — not because our debts disappeared, but because they were transferred to Christ. This is the theological engine behind the fifth petition.
Micah 7:18-19
“Who is a God like you, pardoning iniquity and passing over transgression for the remnant of his inheritance? He does not retain his anger forever, because he delights in steadfast love. He will again have compassion on us; he will tread our iniquities underfoot. You will cast all our sins into the depths of the sea.”
This passage is a crescendo of mercy language: pardoning, passing over, not retaining anger, delighting in chesed, having compassion (rachamim), treading iniquities underfoot, casting sins into the sea. The final image — God hurling our sins into the depths of the ocean — is perhaps the most vivid picture of forgiveness in the entire Old Testament. Corrie ten Boom reportedly added: “And He puts up a sign that says, ‘No fishing allowed.’”
Historical Interpretation
The Church Fathers
Cyprian of Carthage (d. 258) — De Oratione Dominica
Cyprian’s treatise On the Lord’s Prayer (c. 252 AD) is the earliest surviving full commentary on the Our Father. On the fifth petition, he writes:
“After the supply of food, pardon of sin is also asked for, that he who is fed by God may live in God, and that not only the present and temporal life may be provided for, but the eternal also, to which we may come if our sins are forgiven; and these the Lord calls debts.”
Cyprian emphasizes the necessity of daily confession:
“How necessarily, how providently, and salutarily are we admonished that we are sinners, since we are compelled to entreat for our sins; and while pardon is asked for from God, the soul recalls its own consciousness of guilt.”
On the “as we forgive” clause, Cyprian is direct and severe:
“He has bound us by a certain condition and engagement, that we should ask that our debts be forgiven us in such a manner as we ourselves forgive our debtors, knowing that that which we seek for our sins cannot be obtained unless we ourselves have acted in a similar way in respect of our debtors.”
He illustrates this with the Parable of the Unforgiving Servant:
“And the servant who, after having had all his debt forgiven him by his master, would not forgive his fellow-servant, is cast back into prison; because he would not forgive his fellow-servant, he lost the indulgence that had been shown to himself by his lord.”
Cyprian also makes a connection to worship and the altar:
“Our peace and brotherly agreement is the greater sacrifice to God.”
Note for preaching: Cyprian’s reading is strong on the conditional dimension — “unless we ourselves have acted in a similar way” — which needs to be interpreted through the Lutheran lens of the “as” clause as sign/confirmation rather than merit. Cyprian’s emphasis on brotherly peace, however, is pastorally powerful.
Tertullian (c. 160-220) — De Oratione
Tertullian’s On Prayer (c. 198-200 AD) is the earliest surviving treatise on prayer in Christian literature. On the fifth petition, he writes:
“A petition for pardon is a full confession; because he who begs for pardon fully admits his guilt.”
This is a profound observation. The very act of praying the fifth petition is itself a confession of sin. You cannot pray “forgive us” without simultaneously confessing “we have sinned.” The petition is both confession and absolution in compressed form.
On the debt metaphor:
“Debt in the scriptures is a metaphor for wrong-doing, in that wrong-doing no less owes a debt to judgment and is avenged by it, and does not escape the justice of restitution, unless restitution be remitted — as his lord forgave that servant his debt.”
On the duty of reconciliation:
“We profess that we also forgive our debtors… We go not up to the altar of God before we cancel whatever of discord or offence we have contracted with the brethren.”
This connects to Jesus’ teaching in Matthew 5:23-24: “If you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there before the altar and go. First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift.” For Tertullian, the fifth petition demands reconciliation before worship.
Augustine of Hippo (354-430)
Augustine’s treatment of the fifth petition appears in multiple works: the Enchiridion (Handbook on Faith, Hope, and Love), De Sermone Domini in Monte (Commentary on the Sermon on the Mount), and his catechetical Sermons 56-59 delivered to catechumens during Lent.
From the Enchiridion, Chapter 73:
Augustine argues that forgiving those who wrong us is “the greatest of all alms.” He writes that the prayer “Forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors” requires that when someone asks forgiveness for wronging us, we must grant it sincerely from the heart. This is the minimum standard the Lord’s Prayer itself demands of every Christian.
From the Enchiridion, Chapter 74:
“The man who does not from his heart forgive him who repents of his sin and asks forgiveness, need not suppose that his own sins are forgiven of God.”
“If ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you; but if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.”
Augustine calls this a “terrible petition” — terrible because if you pray these words while harboring an unforgiving spirit, you are actually asking God not to forgive you. The prayer condemns you with your own lips. Augustine said this divine warning is “so powerful that it should awaken even those who are spiritually asleep.”
From the Catechetical Sermons (56-59):
In his sermons to catechumens preparing for baptism, Augustine taught that while baptism washes away all prior sins, the fifth petition is necessary because “if there were security from sin in the life after baptism, we would not need to learn the prayer ‘Forgive us our debts.’” He notes that believers commit many daily transgressions — through talking, laughing, eating, listening, drinking, and thinking — and that the Lord’s Prayer “completely blots out our minor and everyday sins.” The prayer is, for Augustine, a daily baptism of sorts — the ongoing application of God’s cleansing mercy to the ongoing reality of human sin.
John Chrysostom (c. 349-407) — Homilies on Matthew
In Homily 19 on Matthew, Chrysostom comments on the fifth petition:
“For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you.”
Chrysostom emphasizes that God makes human forgiveness both achievable and deeply consequential:
“On you, who are to give account, He causes the sentence to depend.”
God has placed the terms of our own judgment in our hands. This is not a burden but a gift — an extraordinary act of divine mercy. God says, in effect: “You set the terms. You decide how strict or how generous the standard will be. The measure you use for others is the measure I will use for you” (cf. Matthew 7:2).
Chrysostom also argues that forgiveness is easier than holding grudges. Harboring resentment is the heavier burden; releasing it is freedom. He contrasts “the ease of forgiveness with the difficulty of harboring resentment,” urging believers to recognize that “releasing anger provides spiritual refreshment and liberation rather than loss.”
A note attributed to Pseudo-Chrysostom adds: “With what hope then does he pray, who cherishes hatred against another by whom he has been wronged? As he prays with a falsehood on his lips, when he says, ‘I forgive,’ and does not forgive, so he asks indulgence of God, but no indulgence is granted him.”
The Lutheran Confessions
Augsburg Confession, Article XII — Of Repentance
“Of Repentance they teach that for those who have fallen after Baptism there is remission of sins whenever they are converted, and that the Church ought to impart absolution to those thus returning to repentance. Now, repentance consists properly of these two parts: One is contrition, that is, terrors smiting the conscience through the knowledge of sin; the other is faith, which is born of the Gospel, or of absolution, and believes that for Christ’s sake, sins are forgiven, comforts the conscience, and delivers it from terrors. Then good works are bound to follow, which are the fruits of repentance.”
Connection to the Fifth Petition: The petition enacts this two-part structure. “Forgive us our trespasses” is the voice of contrition — the conscience recognizing its sin and asking for mercy. The answer to this prayer — absolution, the Gospel promise — is the birth of faith. And “as we forgive those who trespass against us” is the fruit of repentance: the good works that necessarily follow from genuine faith.
The article also condemns the Novatians, “who would not absolve such as had fallen after Baptism, though they returned to repentance.” The fifth petition is the permanent refutation of Novatianism: if we must pray it daily, then forgiveness is always available, and the church must always be ready to absolve.
Augsburg Confession, Article XXV — Of Confession
The Confession teaches that “an enumeration of sins is not necessary” and that “consciences be not burdened with anxiety to enumerate all sins, for it is impossible to recount all sins.” Yet “on account of the great benefit of absolution, and because it is otherwise useful to the conscience, Confession is retained among us.”
This connects directly to the fifth petition. We pray “forgive us our trespasses” without listing every sin — because we cannot list them all. Luther’s own comment in the 1519 Exposition is relevant here: our sins “are more than we know or mark.” The petition covers what we cannot name.
Apology of the Augsburg Confession, Article XII — Of Repentance
Melanchthon writes at length defending the Augsburg Confession’s teaching on repentance against the Roman Confutation. The key point for the fifth petition is:
“Absolution is the promise of the remission of sins, nothing else than the Gospel, the divine promise of God’s grace and favor, and it necessarily requires faith.”
Absolution — the spoken word “I forgive you all your sins” — is not a human invention but the Gospel itself delivered to a specific person. The fifth petition prays for what absolution delivers. Every time the congregation prays “forgive us our trespasses,” they are praying for what they receive in the absolution. And every time they hear “I forgive you all your sins in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit,” they receive what the fifth petition requests.
Smalcald Articles, Part III, Articles III-IV — Of Repentance and the Gospel
Luther distinguishes true repentance from false repentance:
“The New Testament immediately adds the consolatory promise of grace through the Gospel, which must be believed, as Christ declares, Mark 1:15: ‘Repent and believe the Gospel.’”
“Whenever the Law alone, without the Gospel being added, exercises its office, there is nothing else than death and hell, and man must despair.”
The fifth petition, properly understood, is both Law and Gospel in one breath. “Forgive us our trespasses” is the Law’s work — driving us to confess our debt. But the petition is addressed to “our Father” — the Father who has promised to forgive — and so it is simultaneously Gospel: a prayer of faith that clings to the promise.
Article IV of the Smalcald Articles identifies the means through which the Gospel forgiveness is delivered: “God is superabundantly rich in His grace: First, through the spoken Word… Secondly, through Baptism. Thirdly, through the holy Sacrament of the Altar. Fourthly, through the Power of the Keys, and also through the mutual conversation and consolation of brethren.”
Large Catechism — Exhortation to Confession
In the section following the Lord’s Prayer in the Large Catechism, Luther writes an extended exhortation to confession and absolution. He makes the connection to the fifth petition explicit:
“The other confession, in which each one acknowledges before his neighbor, is also included in the Lord’s Prayer, where we confess and forgive trespasses among each other.”
Luther identifies two “absolutions” within the Lord’s Prayer itself: absolution for sins committed against God (vertical) and absolution for sins committed against neighbor (horizontal). The fifth petition is, for Luther, a compressed liturgy of confession and absolution built right into the prayer Christ taught.
He also says of confession:
“The first is our work and act, to deplore our sins and desire consolation and renovation of soul. The other is a work of God, who through the word, in the mouth of man, absolves me from my sins, which is the chief and most valuable thing.”
Law/Gospel Analysis
Law Function — The Sting
1. “Forgive Us Our Trespasses” = Confession
The first clause of the fifth petition is a confession of sin. Every time we pray these words, we are admitting:
- We are debtors. We owe God a debt of perfect obedience — perfect love, perfect trust, perfect worship — and we have not paid. We have not even come close.
- We cannot pay. The debt of 10,000 talents is not a difficulty to be overcome but an impossibility to be acknowledged. We are insolvent.
- We sin daily. Luther: “We daily sin much and surely deserve nothing but punishment.” Not occasionally. Not rarely. Daily. And much.
- We don’t even know the half of it. Luther again: our sins “are more than we know or mark.” The conscious sins are the tip of the iceberg. Beneath the surface lie the sins of thought, of motive, of omission, of indifference — the thousand ways we fail to love God with all our heart and our neighbor as ourselves.
This petition strips away every pretense of self-righteousness. It is impossible to pray it honestly and still think you are a good person in God’s sight.
2. “As We Forgive” = The Mirror
The second clause is a mirror held up to our own hearts. It asks:
- Do you forgive? Not in theory. Not in the abstract. Do you forgive the specific person who wronged you? The neighbor who spread gossip. The family member who hurt you at Thanksgiving. The former friend who betrayed your trust.
- Do you forgive fully? Or do you “forgive” while still keeping a mental ledger? Do you say “I forgive you” but then bring it up again three months later? Do you forgive but avoid the person? Forgive but tell the story to others?
- Do you forgive gladly? Luther’s word is “gladly” — gerne. Not grudgingly, not resentfully, not as a duty to be endured, but gladly, as one who has been set free.
The honest answer, for every human being, is: No. Not fully. Not always. Not gladly. The mirror of the second clause convicts us just as surely as the confession of the first clause. We are guilty twice over: guilty before God, and hard-hearted toward our neighbor.
3. The Unforgiving Servant — The Parable as Law
The parable of the Unforgiving Servant (Matthew 18:23-35) is the Law’s most devastating illustration of this petition. The servant is forgiven an unpayable debt — 200,000 years’ wages — and then refuses to forgive a debt of about three months’ wages. The disproportion is grotesque. And yet this is exactly what we do when we nurse grudges while praying “forgive us our trespasses.”
The king’s question is the Law’s question to us: “Should not you have had mercy on your fellow servant, as I had mercy on you?” There is the “as” again — the terrible, searching “as” that will not let us rest in comfortable hypocrisy.
4. Small-Town Application: Grudges in a Town of 200
In Climax, Minnesota — population roughly 200 — forgiveness is not an abstract theological concept. It is the daily, unavoidable reality of living in a community where:
- Everyone knows everyone. There is no anonymity. You cannot avoid the person who wronged you. You see them at the gas station, at the school, at church, at the elevator.
- Feuds last generations. The dispute between families may have started over a fence line thirty years ago, and the grandchildren still don’t speak.
- The church is small enough to feel every fracture. When two families in a congregation of fifty are not speaking, everyone knows and everyone suffers.
- Forgiveness has a face. It is not a general principle applied to no one in particular. It means forgiving that person, the one sitting three pews behind you.
The Law presses in here with particular sharpness. It is easy to preach forgiveness to strangers. It is hard to forgive the neighbor whose dog keeps getting into your garden, the cousin who said that hurtful thing at the reunion, the church member who criticized how you serve on the board. The fifth petition does not allow us to keep these grudges and still pray with a clean conscience.
Gospel Function — The Salve
1. God Forgives FIRST
The petition begins with receiving, not giving. “Forgive us” comes before “as we forgive.” This order is theologically crucial. God does not wait for us to forgive before He forgives us. His mercy is the cause; our mercy is the effect. His forgiveness creates the possibility of ours.
Luther in the Large Catechism: “He has given us the Gospel, in which is pure forgiveness before we prayed or ever thought about it.” God’s forgiveness is prevenient — it goes before us, precedes us, anticipates us. Before we opened our mouths to pray, the answer was already given in Christ.
2. The Cross: Where the Debt Was Paid
“Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do” (Luke 23:34). The fifth petition finds its ultimate answer not in a catechism but on a cross. The 10,000-talent debt was real, and it was paid — not by us, but by the Son of God. The petition asks for something that cost God everything. Every time we pray “forgive us,” we are asking the Father to apply the blood of His Son to our account. This is not cheap grace; it is the most expensive grace imaginable.
The cross is also where the “as” clause is modeled perfectly. The one who had no debt of His own (2 Corinthians 5:21: “He made him to be sin who knew no sin”) forgave those who owed Him the greatest debt — His own life. “Father, forgive them.” If Christ can forgive His murderers, can we not forgive our neighbors?
3. Absolution: The Ongoing Delivery System
The fifth petition is not merely a one-time prayer; it is the prayer of a lifetime. And the answer to this prayer comes not merely in a general sense but through specific, tangible means. In the Lutheran tradition, the primary delivery system for the forgiveness requested in the fifth petition is the Office of the Keys — confession and absolution.
When the pastor says, “I forgive you all your sins in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit,” the fifth petition is being answered. When the congregation hears, “Almighty God in His mercy has given His Son to die for you and for His sake forgives you all your sins,” the fifth petition is being answered. Absolution is not merely a nice tradition; it is the Gospel itself, spoken into the ear of a specific sinner who needs to hear it.
This is why Luther connected the fifth petition to the practice of confession: “The other confession, in which each one acknowledges before his neighbor, is also included in the Lord’s Prayer.” The prayer teaches us to confess; the absolution teaches us to believe.
4. Freedom: The Forgiven Person Is Free to Forgive
Here is the Gospel’s most beautiful gift within the fifth petition: the forgiven person is set free to forgive. Forgiving others is not a burden imposed on us but a liberation offered to us. The person who clings to a grudge is the one in prison — the prison of anger, bitterness, resentment, the constant rehearsal of old wrongs. The person who forgives walks free.
Luther: “So we too will sincerely forgive and gladly do good to those who sin against us.” The word gladly is not ironic. It describes the actual experience of one who has grasped the Gospel. When you know that your 10,000-talent debt is gone — wiped clean, cast into the depths of the sea, remembered no more — then the 100-denarii debt your neighbor owes you is not hard to release. It is a joy to release it, because releasing it is a participation in the same mercy that set you free.
5. Mercy as God’s Own Nature
“Who is a God like you, pardoning iniquity and passing over transgression for the remnant of his inheritance? He does not retain his anger forever, because he delights in steadfast love.” (Micah 7:18)
The Hebrew of this verse contains a wordplay: mi el kamocha — “Who is a God like you?” — echoes the name Micah itself (mi-ka-yahu — “Who is like the LORD?”). The answer: no one. There is no God like this God — a God who “delights” (chaphets) in chesed, whose nature it is to show mercy, who does not merely tolerate sinners but actively seeks them, pursues them, and rejoices over their restoration (Luke 15:7, 10, 32).
Doctrinal Connections
Confession and Absolution (The Office of the Keys)
The fifth petition is inseparable from the practice of confession and absolution. Luther’s Small Catechism asks: “What is the Office of the Keys?” Answer: “It is the special authority which Christ has given to His church on earth to forgive the sins of repentant sinners.” The fifth petition is the prayer side of what the Office of the Keys is the answer side.
When we pray “forgive us our trespasses,” we are exercising the first part of repentance: contrition. When we hear absolution, we are exercising the second part: faith. The petition and the absolution form a unity — like a question and its answer, like a cry and the embrace that follows.
Luther urged Christians to go to confession not because they were forced but because absolution is such a great gift. In the Large Catechism’s “Brief Exhortation to Confession,” he writes: “The first is our work and act, to deplore our sins and desire consolation and renovation of soul. The other is a work of God, who through the word, in the mouth of man, absolves me from my sins, which is the chief and most valuable thing.”
Justification by Faith
The fifth petition is a prayer of justification by faith. We do not ask God to forgive us because we have earned forgiveness or because our repentance is sufficiently deep or because we have first forgiven others. We ask because He has promised, and faith clings to His promise. This is the article on which the church stands or falls (articulus stantis et cadentis ecclesiae).
The Apology of the Augsburg Confession states: “Absolution is the promise of the remission of sins, nothing else than the Gospel, the divine promise of God’s grace and favor, and it necessarily requires faith.” Faith — not works, not our own forgiving, not our own moral achievement — is the hand that receives what God gives in the fifth petition.
The Means of Grace
The forgiveness requested in the fifth petition is delivered through concrete means:
- The Word — the spoken Gospel, preaching, absolution
- Baptism — where forgiveness was first applied to us, and to which we return daily by the drowning of the Old Adam (Romans 6:3-4)
- The Lord’s Supper — “given and shed for you for the forgiveness of sins” (Matthew 26:28). The Supper is the fifth petition answered in bread and wine.
- The mutual conversation and consolation of brethren (Smalcald Articles III.IV) — when a fellow Christian speaks the promise of forgiveness to you
The fifth petition is not a prayer cast into the void; it is a prayer answered through Word and Sacrament, through the church’s ministry, through the means Christ has established.
Sanctification — Fruit, Not Root
“As we forgive those who trespass against us” is the language of sanctification. Our forgiving is the fruit of faith, not its cause. It is the consequence of justification, not its condition. The Augsburg Confession, Article XII, places it clearly: “Then good works are bound to follow, which are the fruits of repentance.”
This distinction is pastorally critical. If forgiving others is a condition for God’s forgiveness, then every Christian is in despair — because no one forgives perfectly. But if forgiving others is the fruit of having been forgiven, then the Christian who struggles to forgive has a place to go: back to the Gospel, back to the cross, back to the fifth petition itself. The inability to forgive is not the unforgivable sin; it is a symptom of a faith that needs to be strengthened — and it is strengthened by returning, again and again, to the forgiveness of God.
The Two Kinds of Righteousness
Luther’s doctrine of the Two Kinds of Righteousness illuminates the fifth petition powerfully:
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Coram Deo (before God): Our righteousness is passive — the alien righteousness of Christ imputed to us by faith. We are forgiven not because of our works but because of Christ’s work. This is the first clause: “Forgive us our trespasses.”
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Coram hominibus / coram mundo (before others/the world): Our righteousness is active — the love, mercy, and forgiveness we extend to our neighbors. This is the second clause: “As we forgive those who trespass against us.”
The order matters. Passive righteousness precedes and enables active righteousness. We receive before we give. We are forgiven before we forgive. The fifth petition maintains this order perfectly.
Simul Justus et Peccator — Saint and Sinner Simultaneously
Luther’s insight that the Christian is simul justus et peccator — simultaneously righteous and sinful — explains why we pray the fifth petition every day, not just once. We are righteous in Christ (justified by faith), yet we remain sinners in ourselves (the Old Adam persists). We do not grow out of the need for this petition; we grow into a deeper understanding of it.
Luther’s first of the 95 Theses declares: “When our Lord and Master Jesus Christ said ‘Repent,’ He willed that the entire life of believers should be repentance.” The fifth petition is the prayer form of this lifelong repentance. It is not a prayer for beginners that we graduate from; it is the prayer of every Christian, every day, until the day we die and are raised in the likeness of Christ’s resurrection.
The Theme of Mercy
The Hebrew Vocabulary of Mercy
chesed — Steadfast Love, Mercy, Lovingkindness
This is the most important word for God’s character in the Old Testament. It appears 248 times, with 50% of its occurrences in the Psalms. It is the covenant word — the word that describes God’s faithful, loyal, persistent love for His people despite their persistent unfaithfulness.
The theological importance of chesed is that it stands more than any other word for the attitude that both parties to a covenant ought to maintain toward each other. But because Israel was continually wayward, the word came to include mercy and forgiveness as main constituents of God’s covenant faithfulness. Chesed is what God shows when His people break the covenant and He keeps it anyway. It is not sentimentalized love but strong, steadfast, determined love — love that will not let go.
Chesed is the word behind Psalm 136, where every verse ends with “for his chesed endures forever.” It is the word Micah uses in “He delights in chesed” (Micah 7:18). It is the word the psalmist invokes in Psalm 51:1: “According to your chesed, blot out my transgressions.” When we pray “forgive us our trespasses,” we are asking God to act according to His chesed.
rachamim — Compassion, Tender Mercy
From the root rechem — “womb.” Rachamim is the mercy that originates in the deepest visceral bond imaginable: a mother’s love for the child she carried. When Isaiah asks, “Can a mother forget her nursing child?” (Isaiah 49:15), the implied answer is: even if she could, God cannot. His rachamim is deeper than a mother’s instinct.
The connection between mercy and the womb means that God’s compassion is not a cold decision but a warm, bodily, gut-level response to His children’s suffering. The same root appears in the verb used of the prodigal son’s father: “he had compassion” (esplagchnisthe in Greek — also a visceral, gut-level word). Divine mercy is not merely an attribute God possesses; it is an emotion He feels.
Rachamim is the word God uses to describe Himself in the great self-revelation of Exodus 34:6: “The LORD, the LORD, a God merciful (rachum) and gracious, slow to anger, and abounding in steadfast love (chesed) and faithfulness (emet).”
The Greek Vocabulary of Mercy
eleos — Mercy
The primary Greek word for mercy, used throughout the New Testament and the Septuagint. It translates chesed in most of its appearances. The church’s most fundamental prayer — Kyrie eleison, “Lord, have mercy” — uses this word. This prayer appears at the beginning of every Divine Service and at countless points throughout the liturgy. It is the church’s constant confession that we live by mercy, not by merit.
oiktirmos — Compassion, Pity
A stronger word than eleos, often translated “compassion” or “tender mercies.” Paul uses it in Romans 12:1: “I appeal to you, brothers, by the oiktirmon (mercies/compassions) of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice.” The entire Christian life — including forgiving others — is grounded in and motivated by the mercies (plural) of God.
The Kyrie: The Church’s Constant Prayer
“Lord, have mercy; Christ, have mercy; Lord, have mercy.”
This ancient prayer, rooted in the cries of the blind (Matthew 9:27; Matthew 20:30), the lepers (Luke 17:13), and the Canaanite woman (Matthew 15:22), is the simplest form of the fifth petition. It is the prayer of those who know they have nothing to bring — no merit, no worthiness, no claim — and who throw themselves entirely on the mercy of God. The Kyrie is prayed at the beginning of worship as the congregation’s entrance rite: before we hear the Word, before we receive the Sacrament, we confess our need for mercy. The whole service that follows is the answer to this prayer.
Luther on Mercy vs. Merit
Luther’s entire Reformation can be understood as the recovery of mercy over merit. The medieval penitential system had turned forgiveness into a transaction: sin, confess, perform satisfaction, receive absolution. Luther rediscovered what the fifth petition teaches: forgiveness is free. It is gift, not payment. It is mercy, not merit.
In A Simple Way to Pray (1535), Luther teaches his barber Peter how to pray the Lord’s Prayer, turning each petition into a meditation. On the fifth petition, he writes of praying with confidence not in our own purity but in God’s promise — asking that God “would not look upon our sins or hold up to us what we daily deserve, but would deal graciously with us and forgive.”
Mercy in the Magnificat
“His mercy is for those who fear him from generation to generation.” (Luke 1:50)
Mary’s song celebrates mercy (eleos) as the defining characteristic of God’s action in salvation history. Mercy spans the generations. The same mercy that delivered Israel from Egypt delivers us from sin. The same mercy that raised up David raises up Christ. The same mercy that filled Mary fills the church. The fifth petition connects us to this trans-generational river of divine mercy.
The Beatitude of Mercy
“Blessed are the merciful, for they shall receive mercy.” (Matthew 5:7)
This Beatitude, which comes just a chapter before the Lord’s Prayer in the Sermon on the Mount, is the programmatic statement for the fifth petition. Notice the order: the merciful shall receive mercy. This sounds conditional — as though being merciful earns us mercy. But read in context (the Beatitudes describe those whom Christ is already blessing — the poor in spirit, the mourning, the meek), the logic is the same as the fifth petition: those who have received mercy become merciful, and this mercy becomes further confirmation of God’s mercy toward them. It is a circle of grace, not a ledger of merit.
Suggested Sermon Outlines
Outline 1: The Catechetical Sermon — “What Does This Mean?”
Title: “Daily and Much: Living in the Fifth Petition”
Central Insight: The fifth petition is not a prayer we outgrow but one we grow into — it is the daily prayer of the simul justus et peccator.
Suggested Text(s): Matthew 6:9-15, with Luther’s Small and Large Catechism read aloud as part of the sermon
Outline:
I. What We Are Praying (The Text)
- “Forgive us our trespasses” — this is confession
- Three words for the same reality: debts (Matthew), sins (Luke), trespasses (liturgy)
- Every time we pray this, we are saying: “I am a sinner. I cannot pay.”
II. What This Means (Luther’s Small Catechism)
- Read the explanation aloud; it is brief enough to memorize
- “We daily sin much” — Luther’s unflinching honesty
- “Surely deserve nothing but punishment” — the Law presses in
- “By grace” — the hinge word. Everything turns on this.
III. Why We Need It Every Day (Luther’s Large Catechism)
- “We still stumble daily and transgress” — the Christian life is not a triumphant march but a daily battle
- God forgives “before we prayed or ever thought about it” — prevenient grace
- The petition is medicine for the troubled conscience
IV. The “As” — Sign, Not Condition
- Luther: “not on account of your forgiving — for God forgives freely”
- Our forgiving is like Baptism — an external sign of an internal reality
- The forgiven person is free to forgive; the unforgiven person clings to grudges
V. The Daily Rhythm of the Fifth Petition
- Morning: pray “forgive us our trespasses” — begin the day under mercy
- Throughout the day: when sinned against, practice the second clause
- Evening: examine the conscience, confess, rest in the promise
- “So we too will sincerely forgive and gladly do good” — the shape of the baptized life
Law Move: You have prayed this petition thousands of times. Have you ever meant it? Have you ever felt the full weight of “we daily sin much and surely deserve nothing but punishment”? Or has it become mere words, a formula repeated without thought?
Gospel Move: God’s forgiveness is not waiting for you to get it right. “He has given us the Gospel, in which is pure forgiveness before we prayed or ever thought about it.” The petition is not a request that might be denied; it is a promise that has already been given. You are forgiven. Now go and live in it.
Climax Connection: In a small town, everyone sees your sins and you see theirs. There is no hiding. This can feel suffocating — or it can be freeing. The fifth petition teaches us that we are all in the same boat: all debtors, all in need of grace, all invited to lower our plumes before God. This is the deepest kind of community: not the community of the self-righteous, but the community of the forgiven.
Catechetical Opportunity: Teach the Small Catechism explanation. Have the congregation recite it together. Send them home with it printed on a card. Encourage parents to teach it to their children. This is faith formation in its most basic and powerful form.
Illustration Seed: Luther said we should “lower our plumes” — pull down our peacock feathers — before God. Imagine a room full of peacocks at a farmers’ meeting, each one strutting and displaying. Now imagine them all having to fold up their tails and sit down as equals. That is what the fifth petition does to us.
Outline 2: The Narrative Sermon — “The 10,000-Talent Debt”
Title: “The Unpayable Debt and the Unforgiving Heart”
Central Insight: The disproportion between what God forgives us and what we refuse to forgive others is the scandal the fifth petition exposes.
Suggested Text(s): Matthew 18:21-35 (primary), with Matthew 6:12 read as the connecting petition
Outline:
I. Peter’s Question (Matthew 18:21)
- “How many times shall I forgive? Seven times?”
- Peter thinks he is being generous. The rabbis said three.
- We do the same: we set limits on forgiveness. “I forgave her once, twice, three times…”
- Jesus demolishes every calculation: “Seventy-seven times.” Stop counting.
II. The King’s Audit (Matthew 18:23-25)
- A servant owes 10,000 talents — an absurd, unpayable sum
- 200,000 years’ wages. More than the GDP of entire provinces.
- The king orders him sold, with his family and all he has
- This is the Law: the audit of a holy God over a sinful life. The debt is real. The judgment is just.
III. The King’s Mercy (Matthew 18:26-27)
- The servant falls on his face: “Have patience with me, and I will pay you everything”
- This is a lie. He cannot pay. He could not pay in a million lifetimes.
- But the king is “moved with compassion” (splanchnistheis — a gut-wrenching pity)
- He does not merely give him more time. He forgives the entire debt. All of it. Gone.
- This is the Gospel: God does not renegotiate the terms. He wipes the slate.
IV. The Servant’s Cruelty (Matthew 18:28-30)
- That same servant finds a fellow servant who owes him 100 denarii — about three months’ wages
- A real debt. Not nothing. But compared to 10,000 talents? Infinitesimal.
- He grabs him by the throat: “Pay what you owe!”
- He refuses the same plea he himself made (“Have patience with me”)
- He throws the man in prison.
- This is the unforgiveness we carry: real wrongs, but infinitely small compared to what God has forgiven us.
V. The King’s Question (Matthew 18:32-33)
- “Should not you have had mercy on your fellow servant, as I had mercy on you?”
- There is the “as” — the same word that haunts the fifth petition
- The question hangs in the air over every grudge, every feud, every cold shoulder
- There is only one honest answer: “Yes. I should have.”
VI. The Promise and the Warning (Matthew 18:34-35)
- The servant is delivered to the jailers “until he should pay all his debt”
- Jesus: “So also my heavenly Father will do to every one of you, if you do not forgive your brother from your heart”
- This is not works-righteousness. It is the terrifying warning that unforgiveness is evidence of unbelief. The servant who could not forgive was the servant who never truly received forgiveness.
VII. The Fifth Petition — Praying It Again
- “Forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us”
- Now we know what this prayer costs. Now we know what it means.
- To pray it honestly is to confess our 10,000-talent debt — and to release the 100-denarii debts of others.
Law Move: Who is the person you will not forgive? You may have buried the grudge so deeply that you have forgotten it is there. But it surfaces in avoidance, in the cool greeting, in the conversation you won’t have. The parable asks: Do you know what you are holding onto? And do you know what you have been forgiven?
Gospel Move: The king’s compassion is the heart of this story. Before the servant asked, the king was already moved with mercy. Before we pray, God has already forgiven. The cross is the 10,000-talent cancellation notice. It is done. “Father, forgive them.”
Climax Connection: In a small town, the 100-denarii debts are specific. They have names. They have histories. The feud between the Johnsons and the Petersons. The words someone said at the church meeting ten years ago. The way so-and-so treated your mother. These debts are real. But they are not 10,000 talents. They are not worth your soul.
Catechetical Opportunity: Teach the distinction between unconditional forgiveness (from God to us) and the calling to forgive others (fruit of faith). Address the common misunderstanding that forgiving means condoning or that reconciliation must always mean restored trust.
Illustration Seed: A farmer in the Red River Valley knows what it means to carry debt. Land payments, equipment loans, operating costs. Imagine if one spring, the bank called and said: “Your loan — all of it — is paid. Everything. Zero balance.” How would you treat the neighbor who owed you $50 for seed?
Outline 3: The Mercy Sermon — “Who Is a God Like You?”
Title: “A God Who Delights in Mercy”
Central Insight: The fifth petition is grounded in the character of God, who is by nature merciful and whose mercy defines the entire Lenten journey.
Suggested Text(s): Micah 7:18-19, Psalm 130:1-4, Matthew 6:12
Outline:
I. The Question (Micah 7:18)
- Mi el kamocha? — “Who is a God like you?”
- Among all the gods that humanity has ever imagined, only one pardons iniquity.
- The gods of the nations demand appeasement. The God of Israel delights in mercy.
- Chaphets chesed — He delights in steadfast love. Mercy is not a reluctant concession. It is His joy.
II. From the Depths (Psalm 130:1-4)
- The De Profundis — the cry from the bottom
- “If you, O LORD, should mark iniquities, O Lord, who could stand?”
- The answer: no one. Not one human being could survive the audit.
- “But” — the great Gospel “but” — “with you there is forgiveness”
- And the purpose: “that you may be feared” — not casual familiarity, but holy awe
III. The Vocabulary of Mercy
- Chesed — steadfast love, covenant loyalty, the love that will not let go
- Rachamim — compassion from the womb, a mother’s fierce tenderness
- Eleos — mercy, the word the church prays in the Kyrie
- These are not three different things but three angles on the same blazing reality: God is merciful by nature.
IV. Mercy Incarnate (The Lenten Journey)
- Lent traces mercy’s most costly journey: from heaven to earth, from Bethlehem to Calvary
- At the cross, all three mercy-words converge: chesed (covenant kept), rachamim (the Father’s gut-wrenching sacrifice), eleos (mercy poured out for sinners)
- “Father, forgive them” — mercy’s final word before death
V. Mercy Received and Mercy Given (The Fifth Petition)
- “Forgive us our trespasses” — receiving mercy
- “As we forgive those who trespass against us” — extending mercy
- The mercy we extend is not our own; it is God’s mercy flowing through us
- We are not the source; we are the channel
VI. The Mercy Seat (Romans 3:25)
- Christ is the hilasterion — the mercy seat, the place where God’s wrath and God’s mercy meet
- At the mercy seat, justice is satisfied and mercy overflows
- The fifth petition sends us to the mercy seat — every day, every hour
Law Move: We live in a merciless age. Social media does not forgive. Cancel culture does not forget. The court of public opinion has no mercy seat. And our own hearts are often just as hard. We want justice for others and mercy for ourselves. We want God to forgive our 10,000 talents and to audit our neighbor’s 100 denarii.
Gospel Move: “Who is a God like you?” There is no god like this God. He pardons iniquity. He passes over transgression. He does not retain His anger. He delights in chesed. He will again have compassion on us. He will tread our iniquities underfoot. He will cast all our sins into the depths of the sea. This is not a reluctant God. This is a God who runs to meet the prodigal, who weeps at the tomb of Lazarus, who cries “Father, forgive them” from the cross.
Climax Connection: Climax is a town that knows loss — declining population, aging families, closed businesses. Mercy is not just about forgiving individual offenses; it is about hope. The God who delights in mercy does not delight in decline. He is the God of resurrection, of new creation, of springs after long winters. The fifth petition is a prayer of hope: if God can forgive our 10,000-talent debt, He can do anything.
Catechetical Opportunity: Teach the Hebrew and Greek mercy vocabulary. Help the congregation hear the Kyrie with new ears. Connect the Kyrie at the beginning of the service to the fifth petition in the Lord’s Prayer — both are cries for mercy, and both are answered in the absolution and the Sacrament.
Illustration Seed: Micah says God “casts our sins into the depths of the sea.” The Red River is not deep, but every spring it floods — and the floodwaters carry away everything in their path. Think of God’s mercy as a flood — not a destructive flood, but a cleansing one. It rises and carries away every sin, every grudge, every failure, every shame. When the waters recede, the land is clean.
Outline 4: The Pastoral Sermon — “The Daily Struggle”
Title: “The Hardest Prayer You Pray”
Central Insight: The fifth petition confronts our daily, practical inability to forgive — and meets it with daily, practical grace.
Suggested Text(s): Matthew 6:12, 14-15; Colossians 3:12-13; Ephesians 4:32
Outline:
I. The Prayer We Don’t Think About
- We have prayed the Lord’s Prayer thousands of times. Most of the time, we are on autopilot.
- But the fifth petition is the one where the rubber meets the road.
- Because when we say “as we forgive those who trespass against us,” we are talking about real people and real wrongs.
II. Why Forgiveness Is Hard
- It feels unjust. The person who wronged you does not deserve forgiveness.
- It feels dangerous. What if they do it again?
- It feels dishonest. You cannot just pretend it did not happen.
- It is, in fact, impossible — in our own strength. We cannot will ourselves to forgive.
III. What Forgiveness Is and Is Not
- Forgiveness is NOT saying “what you did does not matter.” It does matter.
- Forgiveness is NOT pretending you were not hurt. You were.
- Forgiveness is NOT necessarily reconciliation. You can forgive someone and still set healthy boundaries.
- Forgiveness IS releasing the debt. Canceling what is owed. Choosing not to collect.
- Forgiveness IS a gift — first received from God, then extended to others.
- Forgiveness IS a process — especially for deep wounds. “Seventy-seven times” may describe not just different offenses but the same offense, forgiven again and again as the memory resurfaces.
IV. The Engine of Forgiveness (Ephesians 4:32; Colossians 3:13)
- “Forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you”
- “Forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive”
- The engine is not willpower. The engine is the Gospel.
- You cannot generate forgiveness from within yourself. You can only channel it from the inexhaustible supply of God’s mercy.
V. The Daily Practice
- Luther taught that the fifth petition should be prayed “every day, every hour”
- When the offense comes to mind — and it will — take it to the fifth petition
- “Forgive me, Father, for I am holding this grudge. And help me release it.”
- The petition is not a one-time fix; it is a daily discipline of grace
VI. The Freedom on the Other Side
- The person who holds a grudge is the one in chains
- The person who forgives walks free
- “So we too will sincerely forgive and gladly do good to those who sin against us”
- Gladly. Not grudgingly. Gladly. This is the mark of a heart that has been set free by the Gospel.
Law Move: Think of the person you have not forgiven. You know who they are. You have rehearsed the wrong in your mind a hundred times. You have told the story to others. Every time you pray “as we forgive those who trespass against us,” that person’s face is in the room. And your heart is hard. This is the Law: you cannot do what the prayer asks.
Gospel Move: But God can. The same God who created the world from nothing can create a clean heart in you (Psalm 51:10). The same Christ who said “Father, forgive them” from the cross speaks those words over your unforgiveness, over your hard heart, over your inability. He does not wait for you to fix yourself. He forgives your unforgiveness. And in that forgiveness, He begins to soften the heart that was too hard to forgive.
Climax Connection: In a town this small, forgiveness is not theoretical. It is deeply practical. It means looking someone in the eye at the Co-op. It means sitting in the same pew. It means serving on the same council. The fifth petition is prayed in Climax, Minnesota — not in the abstract, but in the specific, daily, face-to-face reality of small-town life. And that is exactly where Christ meets us: not in the abstract, but in the specific, daily, face-to-face reality of bread and wine, water and Word, neighbor and enemy.
Catechetical Opportunity: Teach the connection between the fifth petition and the practice of confession and absolution. Encourage the use of individual confession and absolution (available but often overlooked in Lutheran congregations). The pastor’s absolution is the fifth petition answered: “I forgive you all your sins in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit.”
Illustration Seed: A farmer knows about releasing things. Every fall, you release the crop — months of labor, worry, prayer — into the combine, the truck, the elevator. You let it go. It is not yours to hold anymore. Forgiveness is like harvest: you release what you have been carrying, and you discover that the burden was heavier than you knew.
Preaching Resources
Hymn Connections (LSB Numbers)
Directly on the Lord’s Prayer:
- LSB 766 — “Our Father, Who from Heaven Above” (Luther’s own Lord’s Prayer hymn; Vater unser im Himmelreich. The stanzas on the fifth petition are particularly strong.)
On Forgiveness and the Fifth Petition:
- LSB 843 — “Forgive Our Sins as We Forgive” (Rosamond Herklots; directly addresses this petition. Outstanding as a sermon hymn.)
- LSB 608 — “Lord, to You I Make Confession” (A penitential hymn of confession and trust in God’s mercy.)
- LSB 607 — “From Depths of Woe I Cry to Thee” (Luther’s versification of Psalm 130 — Aus tiefer Not. One of the great Reformation hymns.)
On Mercy, Confession, and Forgiveness:
- LSB 609 — “Jesus Sinners Doth Receive” (Erdmann Neumeister; a hymn about Christ’s reception of sinners.)
- LSB 611 — “Chief of Sinners Though I Be” (William McComb; personal confession of sin and trust in Christ’s mercy.)
- LSB 421 — “Jesus, Grant That Balm and Healing” (Johann Olearius; a Lenten hymn of penitence and comfort.)
- LSB 434 — “Lamb of God, Pure and Holy” (O Lamm Gottes, unschuldig; a Lenten standard connecting Christ’s sacrifice to our forgiveness.)
- LSB 571 — “God Loved the World So That He Gave” (A clear proclamation of grace and God’s love for sinners.)
Psalm Settings:
- LSB 956 — Psalm 51 (Create in Me; also available as LSB offertory: “Create in me a clean heart, O God”)
- LSB 607 — “From Depths of Woe” (Psalm 130)
Liturgical Notes
For a Lenten Midweek Service:
Consider structuring the service around the theme of confession and forgiveness:
- Opening Hymn: LSB 607 “From Depths of Woe I Cry to Thee” or LSB 608 “Lord, to You I Make Confession”
- Confession and Absolution: Use the full confession and absolution from LSB page 167 or 184. Consider a more extensive, specific form of confession tied to the fifth petition.
- Psalm: Psalm 130 (De Profundis) or Psalm 51 — read responsively or chanted
- Old Testament Reading: Micah 7:18-19
- Epistle Reading: Colossians 3:12-13 or Ephesians 4:31-32
- Gospel Reading: Matthew 18:21-35 (Parable of the Unforgiving Servant) or Matthew 6:9-15
- Sermon Hymn: LSB 843 “Forgive Our Sins as We Forgive”
- Sermon
- The Lord’s Prayer (prayed together, with a pause before and after the fifth petition)
- Offering
- Closing Hymn: LSB 766 “Our Father, Who from Heaven Above” (stanzas 1, 6-7, 9) or LSB 611 “Chief of Sinners Though I Be”
- Benediction
Option: If the congregation practices individual confession and absolution, this would be an excellent week to offer it after the service or at a designated time before the service. The sermon can serve as an invitation.
Quotable Passages
Phrases that could anchor or punctuate a sermon:
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Luther: “We daily sin much and surely deserve nothing but punishment.” — The most honest sentence in the catechism.
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Luther (Large Catechism): “In the presence of God all must lower their plumes.” — A vivid image of the pride that the fifth petition demolishes.
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Augustine (Enchiridion): “The man who does not from his heart forgive him who repents of his sin and asks forgiveness, need not suppose that his own sins are forgiven of God.” — A terrifying sentence that should not be softened.
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Tertullian: “A petition for pardon is a full confession; because he who begs for pardon fully admits his guilt.” — The fifth petition is simultaneously confession and prayer.
Potential Misunderstandings
What might hearers get wrong about this petition — and how to address each:
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“I have to forgive before God will forgive me.” This is the most common misunderstanding and the most dangerous. It turns the Gospel on its head, making human action the precondition for divine mercy. Response: God’s forgiveness is always first. The “as” indicates sign and fruit, not condition and merit. Luther is crystal clear: “God forgives freely and without condition, out of pure grace.”
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“If I can’t fully forgive, God won’t forgive me.” This creates despair in those who struggle with deep wounds. Response: The struggle to forgive is itself a sign of spiritual life — the dead do not struggle. Bring the struggle to God in prayer. “Lord, I believe; help my unbelief” (Mark 9:24). Forgiving “seventy-seven times” may include forgiving the same wound again and again as it resurfaces.
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“Forgiving means pretending it didn’t happen.” This is false and pastorally harmful, especially in cases of abuse. Response: Forgiveness is not denial. It is releasing the debt, not the memory. God Himself does not deny our sin; He deals with it at the cross. Forgiveness may coexist with healthy boundaries, changed relationships, and (in cases of abuse) reporting to civil authorities.
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“I can forgive by willpower if I just try harder.” This leads to superficial, forced “forgiveness” that breeds resentment. Response: Genuine forgiveness is a gift of the Holy Spirit, flowing from the Gospel. You cannot generate it from within. You receive it from God and channel it to others. The means of grace — Word and Sacrament — are the engine.
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“This petition only applies to big sins.” Response: Luther says we “daily sin much.” Most sins are small: the unkind word, the selfish thought, the failure to help, the gossip, the irritability. The fifth petition covers them all — and the “as we forgive” clause applies to the small offenses too. In fact, our refusal to forgive small things may be more revealing than our response to large ones.
Questions the Text Raises
What a thoughtful layperson (or a pastor in the study) might wonder:
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Does God really not forgive if we don’t forgive? How do we hold Matthew 6:15 together with unconditional grace? (Answer: the unforgiveness is a symptom of unbelief, not a separate condition. God does not withhold forgiveness from the willing; He exposes the unwilling.)
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What about repeated offenses by the same person? Does “seventy-seven times” mean there is never a limit? What about enabling destructive behavior? (Answer: forgiveness is unlimited; trust may need to be rebuilt. Forgiveness is unconditional; reconciliation may involve conditions for the sake of the offender and others.)
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How do I forgive someone who isn’t sorry? The petition says “as we forgive those who trespass against us” — does the other person have to ask? (Answer: we release the debt regardless. Augustine says we must forgive “when asked” — but Luther and the broader tradition encourage a unilateral release of bitterness even when the offender does not repent, for the sake of our own conscience and spiritual health. The distinction is between personal forgiveness — releasing the grudge — and ecclesiastical absolution, which is given to the repentant.)
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What is the relationship between forgiving and forgetting? Does God literally forget our sins? Do we have to? (Answer: God promises “I will remember their sins no more” [Jeremiah 31:34], which is a covenant promise not to hold them against us, not a claim of divine amnesia. We cannot erase memories, but we can refuse to use them as weapons.)
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Why does Jesus single out this petition for emphasis? (Answer: because this is where the prayer intersects most directly with daily relationships. The other petitions are largely between us and God; this one is between us and God and us and neighbor. It is the testing ground of faith.)
Soli Deo Gloria
Sources and Further Reading
- Luther, Martin. The Small Catechism (1529). Available at catechism.cph.org
- Luther, Martin. The Large Catechism (1529), Part III: The Lord’s Prayer, Fifth Petition. Available at bookofconcord.org and thebookofconcord.org
- Luther, Martin. “An Exposition of the Lord’s Prayer for Simple Laymen” (1519). Luther’s Works, American Edition.
- Cyprian of Carthage. De Oratione Dominica (c. 252). Available at newadvent.org
- Tertullian. De Oratione (c. 198-200). Available at newadvent.org
- Augustine. Enchiridion (c. 420), Chapters 73-74. Available at biblehub.com
- Augustine. Sermons 56-59 on the Lord’s Prayer (catechetical). Trans. Edmund Hill, Sermons 51-94 (New City Press).
- Chrysostom, John. Homily 19 on Matthew. Available at newadvent.org
- The Augsburg Confession (1530), Articles XII and XXV. Available at bookofconcord.org
- Apology of the Augsburg Confession (1531), Article XII. Available at thebookofconcord.org
- Smalcald Articles (1537), Part III, Articles III-IV. Available at bookofconcord.org
- Engelbrecht, Edward A., ed. The Lutheran Study Bible (Concordia Publishing House, 2009).
- Kolb, Robert, and Timothy J. Wengert, eds. The Book of Concord: The Confessions of the Evangelical Lutheran Church (Fortress Press, 2000).